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badbart

I haven't seen Juno or Knocked Up, so I don't know whether or not it's true that pregnancy for young unwed mothers is being glamorized. I do know that when I was in High School 42,000 years ago, teens who got pregnant mysteriously disappeared from town before any visual clues of their condition became obvious (where they went, I have no idea - they were just gone). Pregnancy wasn't something a young girl willingly brought on herself.

Apparently, the times are a changin'.
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As summer vacation begins, 17 girls at Gloucester High School are expecting babies. That's more than four times the number of pregnancies the 1,200-student school had last year. Some adults dismissed the statistic as a blip. Others blamed hit movies like Juno and Knocked Up for glamorizing young unwed mothers.

But principal Joseph Sullivan knows at least part of the reason there's been such a spike in teen pregnancies in this Massachusetts fishing town. School officials started looking into the matter as early as October after an unusual number of girls began filing into the school clinic to find out if they were pregnant. By May, several students had returned multiple times to get pregnancy tests, and on hearing the results, "some girls seemed more upset when they weren't pregnant than when they were," Sullivan says. All it took was a few simple questions before nearly half the expecting students, none older than 16, confessed to making a pact to get pregnant and raise their babies together.

Then the story got worse. "We found out one of the fathers is a 24-year-old homeless guy," the principal says, shaking his head.
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I weep for the future. Unmarried teens intentionally impreganting themselves? So dumb. They should at least go find some nice polygamist family to marry into that will help them bring their kids up. Am I right? Am I?

I blame Barbie.

Oh, and the entire Spears family.


I predict that stories like this one from Wisconsin will become more and more common in places like Gloucester, Massachusetts in the coming years.
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A pregnant teen from Sheboygan has been charged with disorderly conduct for allegedly throwing a waffle iron at the father of her unborn child, hitting him in the head. Stephanie C. Fennessy, 17, of 1007-A Georgia Ave., faces up to 90 days in jail if convicted of the misdemeanor offense, filed Monday.

According to a criminal complaint:

Fennessy was at her apartment with the 19-year-old Milwaukee man and her two sisters when one of the sisters cracked a joke. The man, Dominique D. Riggins, told police Fennessy became upset, thinking everyone was laughing at her. She stormed into a bathroom and broke a shelf.
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To hell in a hand basket, I tells ya!
puzzlehead
Whatever happened to suicide pacts? Man, kids have to make things so complicated...
queltor
I idealization of being teen parents led to this reality show:
http://www.nbc.com/The_Baby_Borrowers/
doughnutfairy
This was one of our topics of discussion in Communications class tonight. The Spears family was the focal point.

I was the only one in class that spoke up against Jamie Lynn Spears. I don't want her to be a role model for my nine year old. Most of the kids in the class looked at me like I had three arms growing out of the top of my head.
badbart
QUOTE (doughnutfairy @ Jun 19 2008, 08:25 PM) *
This was one of our topics of discussion in Communications class tonight. The Spears family was the focal point.

I was the only one in class that spoke up against Jamie Lynn Spears. I don't want her to be a role model for my nine year old. Most of the kids in the class looked at me like I had three arms growing out of the top of my head.

You old five-armed fuddy-duddy. Everybody knows Jamie Lynn is just a victim. And a perfect role model.


She's a trend setter!
Mike
QUOTE (doughnutfairy @ Jun 19 2008, 10:25 PM) *
This was one of our topics of discussion in Communications class tonight. The Spears family was the focal point.

I was the only one in class that spoke up against Jamie Lynn Spears. I don't want her to be a role model for my nine year old. Most of the kids in the class looked at me like I had three arms growing out of the top of my head.


Let me guess, most of the people in the class were late teens early twenties?
doughnutfairy
QUOTE (badbart @ Jun 20 2008, 11:41 AM) *
QUOTE (doughnutfairy @ Jun 19 2008, 08:25 PM) *
This was one of our topics of discussion in Communications class tonight. The Spears family was the focal point.

I was the only one in class that spoke up against Jamie Lynn Spears. I don't want her to be a role model for my nine year old. Most of the kids in the class looked at me like I had three arms growing out of the top of my head.

You old five-armed fuddy-duddy. Everybody knows Jamie Lynn is just a victim. And a perfect role model.


She's a trend setter!


I swear to God, even the 42 year old teacher looked at me like I didn't have a heart. Of course his daughter is 22 and in the WNBA so there's no chance of her getting knocked up as a teen.


QUOTE (Mike @ Jun 20 2008, 12:05 PM) *
QUOTE (doughnutfairy @ Jun 19 2008, 10:25 PM) *
This was one of our topics of discussion in Communications class tonight. The Spears family was the focal point.

I was the only one in class that spoke up against Jamie Lynn Spears. I don't want her to be a role model for my nine year old. Most of the kids in the class looked at me like I had three arms growing out of the top of my head.


Let me guess, most of the people in the class were late teens early twenties?


You are correct, sir.

I'm the oldest student (duh). There is one other non-traditional student that everyone thought was older than me, but she's one year younger. The only other person even close to my age is a 27 year old guy.
badbart
I finally watched Juno last night. I dunno that it glorifies teen pregnancy, but it certaily doesn't discourage it or encourage abstinence in any way.
All you have to do is look at the fine life-choices made by the screenwriter to know which way she leans.

QUOTE (doughnutfairy @ Jun 20 2008, 07:09 PM) *
I'm the oldest student (duh). There is one other non-traditional student that everyone thought was older than me, but she's one year younger.

It sucks to be old, doesn't it. I'm actually one of the youngest in the group I work with now - it's kind of refreshing.

On the bright side, at least your fellow-students thought your wrinkly old ass was younger than the chick who really was younger. So you've got that going for you.
doughnutfairy
QUOTE (badbart @ Jun 22 2008, 08:41 PM) *
I finally watched Juno last night. I dunno that it glorifies teen pregnancy, but it certaily doesn't discourage it or encourage abstinence in any way.
All you have to do is look at the fine life-choices made by the screenwriter to know which way she leans.

QUOTE (doughnutfairy @ Jun 20 2008, 07:09 PM) *
I'm the oldest student (duh). There is one other non-traditional student that everyone thought was older than me, but she's one year younger.

It sucks to be old, doesn't it. I'm actually one of the youngest in the group I work with now - it's kind of refreshing.

On the bright side, at least your fellow-students thought your wrinkly old ass was younger than the chick who really was younger. So you've got that going for you.



What I don't have going for me is the fact that a few of the students have started calling me "Mom".
dusra
some statistics


badbart
QUOTE (dusra @ Jun 29 2008, 03:27 PM) *
some statistics



Wait...

Was that a joke?


Because...well, wouldn't teen pregnancy actually start dropping off at age 20? Since you're not actually a teen anymore? If it was a joke, good one. You could have used more of a lead-in to set it up, but good nonetheless. If it wasn't a joke...uh, I don't get it.
Pitchit
QUOTE (badbart @ Jun 30 2008, 08:00 AM) *
QUOTE (dusra @ Jun 29 2008, 03:27 PM) *
some statistics



Wait...

Was that a joke?


Because...well, wouldn't teen pregnancy actually start dropping off at age 20? Since you're not actually a teen anymore? If it was a joke, good one. You could have used more of a lead-in to set it up, but good nonetheless. If it wasn't a joke...uh, I don't get it.

Hey Brett, teen pregnancy drops off COMPLETELY at age 20.
dusra
thought it all wasn't a laughing matter.. so no joke..but would a girl maybe got any wiser after age 20 to take precaution of not getting pregnant? unless she is ready to start off a family? Just a thought if it would make any difference
badbart
QUOTE (dusra @ Jun 30 2008, 12:44 PM) *
thought it all wasn't a laughing matter.. so no joke..but would a girl maybe got any wiser after age 20 to take precaution of not getting pregnant? unless she is ready to start off a family? Just a thought if it would make any difference

Dursa, dursa, dursa...

The joke isn't in teen pregnancy itself (which is a very serious matter - as I sorta tongue-in-cheek tried to express in the opening post), but the headline from that article is funny.

Statistics show that teen pregnancy drops off significantly after age 25

Since you're only a teen from age 13 to 19, the headline - whether intentional or not - is funny, since it's impossible to be both a teen and 25 years old. or even 20 years old, as Pitchit made sure to point out.

I suspect the headline should have read something more like:

Unwed mothers spawning bastard babies drops off significantly after age 25

...but I could be wrong.
doa12
I'd read that as the male counterpart gets smarter after they get to 25, or males over 25 are not as appealing to teen girls so they don't get pregnant from older men as often.
Pitchit
Problem is that the term 'teen pregnancy' does not refer to the male in any way.
dusra
QUOTE (Pitchit @ Jun 30 2008, 11:27 PM) *
Problem is that the term 'teen pregnancy' does not refer to the male in any way.

I wouldn't count on that, sience stands for nothing. At least it would be nice for a change.
Pitchit
QUOTE (dusra @ Jul 1 2008, 01:20 AM) *
QUOTE (Pitchit @ Jun 30 2008, 11:27 PM) *
Problem is that the term 'teen pregnancy' does not refer to the male in any way.

I wouldn't count on that, sience stands for nothing. At least it would be nice for a change.

Ummmm.......drinking and posting is NEVER a good idea, Dursa. mellow.gif
dusra
QUOTE (Pitchit @ Jul 1 2008, 02:09 PM) *
QUOTE (dusra @ Jul 1 2008, 01:20 AM) *
QUOTE (Pitchit @ Jun 30 2008, 11:27 PM) *
Problem is that the term 'teen pregnancy' does not refer to the male in any way.

I wouldn't count on that, sience stands for nothing. At least it would be nice for a change.

Ummmm.......drinking and posting is NEVER a good idea, Dursa. mellow.gif

don't know what you are consuming but give me some of the same, thank you!!
nun
QUOTE (Pitchit @ Jun 30 2008, 11:27 PM) *
Problem is that the term 'teen pregnancy' does not refer to the male in any way.


It takes two to tango.

If we were just talking about the woman, well, I'd have to think that asexual pregnancy would skyrocket after about 35-40.
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